A Message from Becky:

My journey with Esophageal Cancer began in early spring 2018. My husband Mike noticed that sometimes when he was eating, the food seemed to get stuck. He said he was having severe heartburn but other than that, he had no out of the ordinary health complaints.

Later that year, Mike had his yearly checkup. His doctor ordered an endoscopy that was performed on Sept. 11, 2018. I still have a hard time believing what happened that day was real. When the surgeon came in to discuss the results, he looked at me and said how very sorry he was to tell me that my husband had very advanced Esophageal Cancer. He had a large tumor at the Gastroesophageal Junction.

The chemoradiation that fall took a toll on Mike. He was scheduled for surgery in January. Shortly after the surgery was supposed to start, my cell phone rang, and it was the surgeon telling me that Mike’s tumor had quadrupled in size throughout the chemoradiation and was now too large for the Ivor-Lewis procedure. Surgery was rescheduled for two weeks later, when they planned to do a total gastrectomy.

The surgery went as planned, and although the recovery was very long and painful, Mike kept plugging along. Even after the pathology report came back and six of the ten lymph nodes tested positive for cancer cells, we both still believed that he could beat this very aggressive cancer. Mike endured six more months of bi-weekly chemotherapy treatments. During this time, his weight and strength kept dropping, but he was still determined to get back to his life as a busy high school principal.

On September 11, 2019, he had a PET scan to see how well the latest treatments had worked and thankfully was declared to be clear of cancer cells. It was time to try to get back to living again! Unfortunately, when he had the next set of scans in December, the cancer had returned. Mike went through six treatments of immunotherapy. He was still losing weight, and it was becoming very difficult to keep ahead of the pain.

In March 2020 the scans revealed that the immunotherapy had no effect on the cancer, and it had begun to grow again. By this point, Mike was too thin and weak to continue treatment, and he entered Hospice care. On May 15, 2020, Mike passed away after each of our three children and their spouses said goodbye to him.

His loss has been felt significantly in our school community and especially in our family. We all take comfort in knowing that he is never truly gone; we feel his presence in our lives every single day. Not all of our granddaughters got to meet him, but we all make sure that they know him through our stories. I believe he is proud of us and how we are getting along in his absence.

I decided to get involved in the Esophageal Cancer Action Network as a way to help myself through my grief journey and also as a way to advocate for increased funding for research. I truly believe that screening for Esophageal Cancer should be done just like other “routine” screenings.

I am so happy to see posters for the new Eso-Guard test that doesn’t require sedation in my local hospital, and I pray that this can become part of everyone’s routine healthcare. Waiting for symptoms is typically too late.

I am honored that I was asked to be the chair of the Steps to Save Lives April 2023 Virtual 5K. Please join me in raising awareness of the signs and symptoms of Esophageal Cancer, as well as raising money to fuel the end of Esophageal Cancer.

Virtual Steps to Save Lives April 2023 supporting Esophageal Cancer Action Network (ECAN)

Virtual Steps to Save Lives April 2023

Virtual Steps to Save Lives April 2023 supporting Esophageal Cancer Action Network (ECAN)